As head coach of the Honolulu Nova, I know a starting lineup cannot be based only on talent. Skill and production matter, but I also need to know how players respond to pressure, criticism, changing roles, and adversity.
Personality and emotional intelligence assessments provide information that may not appear in statistics or film. They can show how a player communicates, what motivates him, and how he handles mistakes. I would never use one assessment as the only reason to start or bench a player. It should be another piece of information, not the final answer.
What I Look For
The traits I would assess include self-awareness, emotional control, communication, resilience, confidence, empathy, motivation, coachability, adaptability, and leadership. Emotional intelligence is useful because it involves managing emotions while recognizing the emotions of others (Mayer et al., 2004). Basketball is emotional. Players miss shots, lose minutes, disagree with decisions, and sometimes believe they deserve a different role. How they handle those moments affects the team.
The Coach's Own Traits
The coach's traits matter too. An impatient coach may remove a player too quickly. A coach who avoids conflict may let problems continue. A coach who lacks self-awareness may think every decision is objective even when personal preference is involved. Players also react to the emotional tone of their leader. If I panic or blame people, the Nova will feel it. If I stay composed and accountable, they are more likely to do the same.
Players should take leadership assessments because leadership is not limited to captains or starters. A bench player can change the team's energy. A younger player can raise practice effort. A role player can defend, communicate, and hold others accountable.
The Good and Bad Sides of Assessments
There are good and bad sides to assessments. The good side is understanding. One player may respond well to direct correction, while another may need a private conversation. One player may speak during conflict, while another stays quiet even when something is wrong.
The bad side is that results can become labels. A coach may decide a player is not a leader or cannot handle pressure based on one score. Players grow, and athletes may answer based on how they want to be viewed. Assessments should start conversations, not end them.
Setting a Clear Standard
As head coach, I also have to make sure the standard is clearly known. Players cannot be held accountable to expectations that were never explained. They should know what effort looks like, how teammates communicate, what role acceptance means, and which daily behaviors build trust.
I am working through this with one of the Nova's young captains. He cares about the team, works hard, and represents our culture well. I am trying to help him understand that living the standard creates opportunities, but it does not guarantee that those opportunities will be exactly what he wants.
Meeting the standard may earn trust and an opportunity to play. After that, his skill, attitude, effort, decision-making, and intent still have to match the role he wants. Practicing hard, supporting teammates, and doing what is expected do not automatically make someone the team's Ace. Those behaviors create access to an opportunity. They do not prove that he is the best fit for every role.
If he is the best Ace among the players who earned an opportunity, then the role should be his. If another player gives the Nova a better chance to succeed there, I have to choose what is best for the team. I cannot hurt the team's chances just to satisfy one player's preferred identity. Living the standard grants opportunity. It does not guarantee personal alignment.
“Living the standard grants opportunity. It does not guarantee personal alignment.”
Assessment information can help with that conversation. A self-aware player may understand that his preferred role and best role are not always the same. A player who takes criticism personally may need more explanation and patience. The standard stays the same, but my communication may change.
Building Lineups and Rotations
For starting players, I would consider talent, consistency, emotional control, communication, trust, and lineup fit. The five best individuals are not always the best five-player unit. For bench players, assessments can help me explain roles and choose the right motivational approach. Some need a direct challenge. Others need a private conversation and smaller goals.
Rotations should also consider personality and chemistry. Two emotional scorers may struggle together. A quiet player may need a vocal teammate beside him. In late-game situations, I need players who can think clearly and execute. The best scorer may take the shot, but another player may be the best inbounder, screener, or decision-maker.
My coaching style should change depending on the player without changing the standard. Some Nova players may respond to tough love and direct accountability. Others may need patience, encouragement, and private correction. Fairness does not mean speaking to every player the same way. It means giving each player what he needs to meet the same expectation.
Holding Myself to the Same Standard
I recommend that coaches complete an emotional intelligence assessment. Coaches ask players to control emotions, receive feedback, understand teammates, and remain accountable. We should expect the same from ourselves. Emotional intelligence can improve self-awareness, self-management, empathy, and relationships (Goleman, 1998).
My own results showed strengths in enthusiasm, relationships, creativity, and helping others improve. Self-awareness may be the most important quality for me because it helps me recognize what I do well and where I need growth. I can build on it by reflecting after games, listening to assistants and players, documenting important decisions, and explaining standards and roles more clearly.
Players should have a voice, but not veto power. I still make the final decision, but listening gives me better information before I make it.
Assessments do not replace coaching judgment. They help improve it. For the Honolulu Nova, they connect role clarity, conflict, decision-making, standards, and individual development. The goal is not to give every player the role he wants. The goal is to help each player earn, accept, and succeed in the role that gives the team its best chance to win.
References
Goleman, D. (1998). Working with emotional intelligence. Bantam Books.
Mayer, J. D., Salovey, P., & Caruso, D. R. (2004). Emotional intelligence: Theory, findings, and implications. Psychological Inquiry, 15(3), 197–215. https://doi.org/10.1207/S15327965PLI1503_01